Wednesday, March 11, 2020
Keira Knightley Criticized Kate Middletons Postpartum Body But Maybe Shes Right
Keira Knightley Criticized Kate Middletons Postpartum Body But Maybe Shes Right Keira Knightley, the actress we all know for herbei obsession with corsets, can now add author to her LinkedIn profile. She recently penned an essay for Feminists Dont Wear Pink and Other Lies, an anthology edited by jurnalist Scarlett Curtis.But some people on Twitter wish the actress wouldve stuck to the screen. She is facing massive backlash for her essay a letter to her daughter titled The Weaker Sex in which she compares the gut-wrenching reality of childbirth to a fairytale version of motherhood she believes Kate Middleton embodies.You came out with your eyes open. Arms up in the air. Screaming, she tells her daughter. She describes the vomit, the blood, the stitches... the blood running down my thighs, cellulite of childbirth. Then, she juxtaposes this gritty, almost animal experience to Kate Middletons public appearance only a few hours after she gave birth to Princess Charlotte. She was out of hospital seven hours later with her face made up and high heels on, Knightley wrote of Middleton. The face the world wants to see. Hide. Hide our pain, our bodies splitting, our breasts leaking, our hormones raging. Look beautiful, look stylish, dont show your battleground, Kate.Twitter thought this attack on a personal experience was completely uncalled for...Source TwitterSource Twitter... and a textbook example of women tearing down other women in the name of feminism.Source TwitterSource TwitterBut one viral opinion argues everyone is missing the point.Writer Chitra Ramaswamy suggests that were hiding womens experiences by dictating that women must affirm others rather than spread their truth.Lets be clear. Knightley is not personally slamming the duchess for giving birth and then putting on some lipstick. Her attack is squarely aimed at a world that induces women to hide, she writes. The recounting of one experience doesnt automatically negate the worth of another, just as cri ticising another woman (which isnt what Knightley is doing anyway) doesnt automatically make you a double werber of the patriarchy. And yet, whenever a woman dares to open up about her labour she is castigated for mum-shaming and woman-hating.It is widely believed that feminism is rooted in critique and more specifically, the critique of the powerful structures and institutions that create society as we know it. And sometimes, critiquing those structures means critiquing those in power who tell our stories.Knightley wants to normalize the gritty truth of childbirth, and that means breaking up the false story that has been told for so long. Its nothing personal towards Kate.But it is personal towards the patriarchy. In her concluding lines, Knightley seems to mimic society telling Middleton how to perform.Seven hours after your fight with life and death, seven hours after your body breaks open, and bloody, screaming life comes out. Dont show. Dont tell, Knightley writes. Stand there with your girl and be shot by a pack of male photographers. This stuff is easy. It happens every day. Whats the big deal?And she has choice words for all of us.So does death, you s--t-heads, but you dont have to pretend thats easy.More on pop cultureCarrie Underwood is Being Bullied By Moms For The fruchtwein Ridiculous ReasonWorking Mom Natalie Portman Has the Perfect Clapback When a Man Describes a Woman as Crazy
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